as per requested by my dear friends who loves to read on my perspectives on r/s, love etc.
since then, i'm thinking of revamping my whole blog or probably shift to a new one with animations n etc involve, maybe on lifestyles, fashion, food, and human relationships. who knows i may become a celebrity blogger? haha. dream dream. wait till i fully get my laptop fixed, and master dreamwaver with photoshop cs5.
my bro did, i don't believe i couldn't.
give me some time then.
i wanted to keep it simple, but well.. we should get complicated. or life is.. isn't it?
maybe i should ask myself why i should stop typing?
sorry for any tenses and etc for this entry. i kinda cant be bothered to type properly at sucha time.
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在你左右
你是否曾想过你最爱的人欺骗过你吗？
有些人能够很潇洒的拿起让后放下
有些人不管时间过了多久都会怀旧
今天的你属于了那一类型的人?
maybe like what my brother shared with me the other day... humans are never satisfied.
you have been there, always there. there are many little things which you may have done, the efforts, your sweat; your persistence brought you through time. people's lifestyle changes, perspective about many things changes.
things started to be taken for granted. i.e. for the little thing you brought, all your heart and soul was probably a token hoping that this little gift would be a charm to protect the dearest one you love. yet, you probably seen it chucked aside. disappointed?
i was kinda chatting with L, then i was mentioning about this bag of greenbeans which my grandma probably gave it to be while i was young. till today, it's still in my couple, power rangers pencil case, envelopes and etc. even say stickers, which i probably used a few, i would at least keep the last one just to remember that it was once grandma/aunt who brought me. today when i see it, i'll remember who has given me what, though the place/date that is probably not recorded.
many of us love to receive surprises, love and etc. immediately, we were touched by what's given to us. (we're all visual creatures) however, why not have the image that flashes in your mind; how has he go about doing so? how was his effort? how did he do it? even for the simplest thing that he has done, say packing meals and etc; have you thought about the long queue/waiting time, how he has travel just to deliver it to you?
i'm not trying to ask you to weigh or calculate love for all that you've given.
love is about appreciating, isn't it? sometimes or often than not, when it has been there, always there; every little thing was forgotten/not seen. we don't often remember the good little things such as the aforementioned. so i hope those who are in love, sees this.
we probably remember those impactful ones, hurtful ones, BIG surprise one.
you know when do man start to feel tired about r/s? when he/she has given all, but least feel appreciated at the end of the day. energizing man to do things for you is easy, but you got to get your language right.
有人说你越恨就是越爱.
weird huh? sometimes we're so blinded by hatred which was cause by another party that we actually forget how much we do actually love them.
could you ever recall how the soul that was joined so fully as one? the trust, the bond, the TRUE love that was built over time.
mind you, no one enters the stage of TRUE love till about 3-4 years and more. And, you'll experience, "fall in love" with your partner again. only then, it'll be even more beautiful. only when more hurdles are crossed, differences are brushed, only then it'll evolve, yet still knowing how to appreciate one another. otherwise, the first 3 years are probably still on discovering process, where lust and passion are still burning HOT.
when you first truly love someone, it isn't about his/her looks, it isn't about his/her talents or capability. you fell in love with his/her flaws which looks so beautiful to you.
you don't nor can you love someone ALOT everyday. you love someone a little more each day, and you love him/her more or less on different days. you'll always think about him/her irregardless of where you are; your concern and curiosity about him/her despite time & place.
what has your mind deny you of, today?
the day your wife die, only then she's called yours.
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S will hate me for the next part. but i'll only reflect the truth about reality.
when you're in love, you feel butterflies in your stomach, but words play the part.
when you never thought that there's an ending, we forgot that passion dies.
i believe actions through time speaks louder than words and even beliefs.
today if a girl were to leave her BF for me, she will do so once again.
however, women do love men to sweet-talk them. only then they feel they are loved.
yet, at the end, they are the ones who will hurt you most. sad, but it's a fact.
today, you may think why am i not entering one? i know my time hasn't come, i've got 8 years long to chose or even more.
when you enter one r/s, it isn't about trial an error, it isn't about filling your void. it's when you know you will love and care for that someone despite health and wealth, this life-time.
somehow, i made pretty much good girlfriends whom i can often chat with.. be it phone/sms/msn. And i mean i do really take them as FRIENDS and no other intentions.
love is a natural occurrence process. don't have to find nor look for it.
time is still early. you'll have the best to come. =)
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爱情是撒旦送来的礼物
拆开之后
你的人生就陷入万劫不复
爱情是毒菜穿的糖衣
甜美的包装不是致命的危机
爱情是残酷的游戏
当你好不容易鼓起勇气
付出真心的时候
再一次让你陷入失望的绝境
真心是笑话
勇气是废话
坚持是鬼话
忠贞是梦话
幸福是屁话
一生一世的相恋或许只是出现在言情小说里面的情节...
have i satisfy your appetite?
basic military talk is on episode 4 now. mine is probably 6/7... still a long way before the video surfaces. =.=
