<<熟悉的陌生人>>

今天, went to run some errand

好久似乎没经过 Tampines Mall 了

最近忙到连想看部电影都没空

经过 Hokkaido Fair

她的影子从我脑海里浮现

也真巧的 给我碰上了

at the very moment while i was walking,

at the very second

and glance

我们...

擦肩而过 (加上中间人人所谓的 Big Hamster) - 封号不是我给的

...

你是否曾想过, 你能爱一个人到多久?

5年, 10年? 天长地久?

天长地久或许也只不过是爱情里一开始最虚伪的谎言

也是最终的痛苦

你是否曾想过, 你曾最信任, 最爱的人会变得如此陌生...

你是否曾想过, 今天与你度过最多时光的人会变得不曾相识.

many women told me, it's important to find someone who will love them for life.

yet again, when time allows us to take everything for granted.

when positive traits became magnified flaws today. (i.e. determination is seen as a positive character trait. yet, when it comes to break up, people seen you as being persistent; yet forgetting that it's actually your determination to work things out.)

everything has it pros and cons, nothing is regarded as good nor bad.

we're nobody to judge anybody.

"everything that happens today, is a replica. the difference lies in the caliber which suits the parameters for the process today.

if U changes with respect to Time. I remains the same."

as much as i love changes and challenges, i fear the change in a r/s. the agony of pain do actually haunt people subconsciously.

sometimes i wonder if it's fear that forbids me to commit into any form of r/s.

am i enclosing myself?

i want to be fair to them, i guess.

unlike when i know there are people who actually subconsciously tries to forget their ex-es by going for another r/s, leaving many things unresolved.

or sometimes when their "current" ain't free to company them, their mind went back to the past (start thinking/stalking) and also when they are subconsciously having comparison to their ex-es (for the good things; that's where they start to remember) when they're faced with quarrels or bad times with their "current".

being in one r/s ain't about sweet words that touches you. it ain't about the romances which you try to buy from ambiance/places. it ain't about the initial stage of love where hormones are burning, avoiding quarrels at all cost and you still hope for it to burn till ripe old age.

understanding, i say. love, care and concern.

& be your very true self. ultimately, who takes care of you best?

well..

you may be surprise; today, girls ask actually ask YOU out on a date, texts you ferociously even before you have the time to reply them. =.=

sometimes, life really makes you wonder about it's value.


有时候我心里会笑着说, "我的人生真的是所谓的; 人生如戏,戏如人生."


i do enjoy the solitary from time to time. peaceful, isn't it?



P.S. "熟悉的陌生人, 你好. 好久不见."